Tuesday, 12 March 2019
Sonia Sánchez - "The brothel is like a torture chamber..."
"The brothel is like a torture chamber, and the sex buyer is the torturer. When you enter that room, all you want is to get it over with. Your mind becomes unattached from your body. You’re scared that they’ll lock the door and leave you completely exposed to the beating. When this is repeated several times a day, isn’t this systematic torture? The puta may know more about a man’s body than the non-puta, but it’s hard to do anything with that knowledge because it’s a product of rape and torture. That man knows he is taking advantage of your body in its most vulnerable state. That’s why it’s a lie to say the puta decides how much to charge. The price is set by your age, your hunger and the buyer who knows your weakness and uses it."
Sonia Sánchez, Argentinian prostitution survivor, activist and author.
Original article in Spanish here
Thursday, 7 March 2019
An interview with Colombian prostitution survivor & activist Beatriz Rodríguez
Beatriz
Rodríguez’ life was turned upside down when her family
introduced her into prostitution at the age of 14. What she calls her
“kidnapping” lasted 22 years. She was born in the city of Pereira, Colombia, but
eventually ended up in Florencia, another Colombian city where she found a way
out and a reason to live - to help other women to escape the clutches of the
traffickers who send women in their thousands to countries across the world. She
is now aged 50 and the association she directs, which began as a local government-funded
project that trained women to be butchers , has grown
into an integrated project of empowerment and development for women in the region.
Her brave work, undertaken in a conflict hot spot in Colombia, earned her a
Nobel prize nomination.
How did
you enter prostitution?
I was trafficked by my family. When I was 14, still a girl, my mother
took me to my aunt who owned a brothel. Virginity is highly prized in my
country, so when I lost mine I was no longer worth anything. My mother thought
it would be impossible to get me married off, so there was nothing else to do
with me. She told me that I had to be responsible and go and work with my aunt.
You were
sexually exploited for over 20 years. How did it affect you psychologically and
how were you able to withstand it?
I was kidnapped from my own body and my own world. Back then, I didn’t
analyse it, I survived without thinking about it or feeling it. I could never
give myself the space to sit down and cry for all the pain and damage I was
suffering. It was simply what I was taught to do as a girl. I was subjugated,
coerced and convinced that this was my lot in life. I didn’t have that space to
react. When I managed to get out, I began to hurt. I had sleepless nights, I
couldn’t have sexual relations with my partner, I couldn’t leave behind the
guilt and fear. Now I feel the pain, but back then I doing was what my mother
had taught me.
Was your
mother in prostitution?
No, she was never in that situation.
What
were the other women you met like during those years?
As the prostitution survivor and activist Amelia Tiganus says, the
brothels are concentration camps, where every type of pain and crime that could
be committed against a human being converge. They are places of abuse and
extreme violence. Brothels are also places of drug and alcohol addiction. Personally,
I used alcohol as a palliative to get through it. We were under constant danger
of Illness, AIDs, pregnancy, beatings and kidnappings. In my case, I spent most
of the time held captive, without documents, and the money that was paid for my
abuse never came into my hands.
How was
this network set up so that you couldn’t escape?
They took away your documents, so you couldn't go out on the street. Our
society and laws put all the blame on the putas. They also take away all your economic capacity and keep you controlled
constantly, under lock and key. I have
three children - a daughter and a son who are both 34 and another daughter who’s
now 28. When I gave birth, I handed the babies over to my mother and carried on
working without any postnatal care.
Fortunately,
you got out of that hell. How did you do it?
We formed a group of 20 women and gained support from the mayoress of
Florencia, the city in the Amazon in Colombia where I ended up being trafficked
to and where I still live. Lucrecia Murcia had promised her electorate she
would create a “resocialisation” program for vulnerable groups, including the prostituted
women, who they referred to as “sex workers”. She helped us get funding through the University
of the Amazon for training in meat production, and we formed AOMUPCAR (Association
of Women Butchers & Meatpackers of Caquetá).
We started out making sausages, ribs and hamburgers, but we’ve grown into a social,
political and economic platform for the women in the region.
Now AOMUPCAR
is a school of psychological, medical, pedagogic and productive empowerment for
women in the region. It has even opposed forced evictions. Why didn’t you
change the name?
We kept the name in memory of our origins, but most of all for security
reasons. In a way, the name acts as a protection in a very violent region. Here
the armed conflict in the drug and arms trade involves many groups – the military,
paramilitaries, the US army, crime gangs. It isn’t easy to do our work in this
territory because they don’t like us taking away the women, their spoils of
war. They don’t want women to empower themselves.
How is
the armed conflict in Colombia related to trafficking and sexual exploitation?
In a way, the zone of conflict acts as a breeding ground, a place to experiment
with new types of trafficking and prostitution. The drugs trade and the sex
trade are both important for the economy. It’s a matter of powerful men buying
whatever they want, which includes women’s bodies and lives. To them we are just
things, tools, easy to buy and easy to manage. On the other side, the
government doesn’t even consider trying to abolish prostitution because they
reap huge economic benefits from it. From my home city of Pereira, which has
476,000 inhabitants and is in the coffee-growing region of Colombia, we’ve counted
42,000 women trafficked to Spain alone, but many more are taken across Europe
and to Japan. It’s an economic benefit that no state wants to lose.
How has
feminism helped you to face your past and be able to help others?
I’ll be very honest, I don’t know a lot about law or academia. What
helped me to heal was the work I do with other women. To be able to rescue them
from danger, open their eyes, to listen to them and alleviate their pain. I am
grateful for whatever academics can do to help women, but I want to continue
rescuing them and helping them to overcome the situation they’re in.
Translated by Ben Riddick
Friday, 8 February 2019
APROSEX - The Spanish "Sex Workers Association" which offers an Introduction to Prostitution course receives €25,000 in government funding
By Anna Pratts, 07/08/2018 |
APROSEX, an
association of “professional sex workers” based in Barcelona which offers an “Introduction
to the Prostitution Profession” course, received over €25,000 in grants from local
government authorities between 2016 and 2018.
The three-day course is conducted
via Skype and costs €90. According to the APROSEX (Asociación de Profesionales
del Sexo) website the course is broken down under the following headings;
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Why
do I want to be a prostitute?
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Insisting...do
I really want to be a whore?
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Have
you thought about the drawbacks?
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Do
I feel ready to practice this profession?
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Little
and “not so little” sex tricks
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An introduction to stigma in prostitution and
its consequences for mental health
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The
professionalisation of sex workers
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The
tax office and social security
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Marketing
for sex workers
There is no mention of strategies to prevent sexually transmitted diseases or the abuse and violence they may suffer at the hands of their future “clients.”
APROSEX, in
the words of its president, Paula VIP (real name, Conxa Borrell), is “a non-profit
organisation which aims to create a network of sex industry workers, and a political
platform to oppose abolitionists and prohibitionists.” In their 2017 manifesto they
label prostitution abolitionists as “whorephobes” and accuse them of “poisoning
feminism.”
APROSEX president Conxa Borrell |
The
manifesto, entitled “Abolitionism Vs. Feminism”, has been endorsed by
politicians such as Antonio Baños, an important figure in the left-wing pro-Catalan independence
party CUP, and AMMAR, an Argentinian “sex workers union” whose leading members have
been tried for the crimes of sex trafficking and pimping.
In a 2014 interview
APROSEX president Conxa Borrell said that many of the young girls between the
ages of 18 to 23 who want to enter prostitution do so to pay
for studies or to help their families. Apparently, women of 50 years or older also
sign up because they struggle to find
employment elsewhere and “have hardly been with any men other than their
husbands, but there´s a market for them because they’re affectionate, they know
how to get men off and they’re up for the job... A puta who doesn’t like sex is
like an anorexic food critic.”
Borrell
considers that a professional prostitute should be emotionally intelligent and develop
empathy with the male sex buyers in order to improve client retention; “We putas are clever, we know that we don’t
make money with our vaginas – all women have a vagina - but by using our heads. Listening to the
client is fundamental. You should pay attention to them like they're the
most important person in the world and memorise all the information they give
you.”
APROSEX's “Give me the blowjob of your life” course description |
In 2016 APROSEX also offered a men-only course entitled “Give me the blowjob of your life”. Enrolment
on the 90-minute workshop cost €60 and was advertised on their website with the
following description:
“Many of you complain that saintly women, and
even some putas, don’t know how to suck it properly. We believe the problem isn’t
that they don’t know how to use their tongue and mouth, but that you don’t know
how to direct them. You let yourself get carried away by your own pleasure, but
don’t really understand that you also produce an extraordinary delight in the
woman. This workshop, like the others we organise, is practical. That means the
blowjobs will be real. No dildos, bananas or cucumbers. They’re fine for
nibbling, but sucking a fully erect penis is always preferable...”
APROSEX's "How To Strip Yourself and a Man" course |
Other
workshops offered on the website include ‘The Art Of Fellatio’ taught by Anna
Alba Escort, and ‘How To Strip Yourself and a Man’ by Martina de la Terra
Escort.
You may be asking
yourself whether this isn’t just standard prostitution presented in the form of a
‘course’? What’s the difference? Where would you draw the line? The APROSEX collective have not responded to questions, limiting themselves to accusing their critics of “whorephobia”. When I posted screenshotsof the course description and documents on Twitter which revealed the local government funding they received, the group’s founder responded by claiming this
was “a hate campaign, ran by privileged people who are not stigmatised.”
The Eulalia Roig escort agency promoted by APROSEX |
The APROSEX homepage features a link to a forum called Geishas VIP which is hosted from the
same IP address as the main APROSEX site and Conxa Borrell’s personal website. Geishas
VIP has an ‘agencies’ subforum where they officially recommend one such
business in particular, Eulalia Roig, which offers on its website “an exquisite
selection of the most select escorts that can be found in Barcelona. Get in
contact to arrange an unforgettable date.”
How much do
the women and girls have to pay to this agency and what is its relationship to
Aprosex? Are the women and girls who attend their Introduction to Prostitution
course also introduced to Eulalia Roig? Aprosex have declined to comment.